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2 View All Next »I want to introduce you to someone. She’s geeky to her Joss-Whedon-loving core, a Whovian, Vertigo-reading, 3rd edition D&D (none of that 4th ed crap thank you very much) gamer with the con stories to prove it. While it’s true that many men will use it as a polite dodge to avoid saying “I’m not attracted to you”, when it comes up over and over again, it’s a sign that maybe there’s more to it. And don’t get me wrong, this isn’t someone looking for geeky attention or a propped up fantasy. But “intimidating” is almost uselessly vague, especially if they keeps coming up; it covers a multitude of meanings to the point that it means everything and nothing at once.
Being told “You’re too intimidating” is incredibly aggravating to women.
After all, women are encouraged to be assertive, accomplished and independent; being told that they’re “intimidating” sounds like they’re being told to take all of that back and pretend to be something less than what they are. Are geek guys finding a woman’s accomplishments to be somehow threatening? Because “intimidating” is so subject to personal interpretation, I thought it was best to go to the source: geek guys.
Instead, make a point of being approachable and friendly.
Wide smiles that reach your eyes (the “Duchenne Smile”) and open, welcoming body language can make a shy or introverted guy feel more welcome.
I'm nice, not threatening, none of that stuff anymore. Being able, to hold a conversation, can be intimating. Can always, think about how you posture yourself, then 'search' it online. ) It is not easy and you will need the understanding of the man in your life. So, this is what I have learned about squashing the intimidation Ask - Don't tell Say Thank You - A lot and do it sweetly (stop gagging) Be gentle - kiss is head when you pass him sitting in a chair, let him open the car door, walk slower when you are with him, lay his bathrobe out when he is in the shower. Ive heard, if men feel like you dont NEED them, they wont stick around. Also, it's pretty much only men who find me intimidating.